Feelings when divorced spouse starts dating
I am a woman who has always worked in the automotive service industry so working with men is what I have always done.
My boss and I could joke about work, we talked about kids, sports all the normal things.
She blogged that she doesnt know why I stay around with him wth the issues that we have had with his health.
I love him....thats what you do when you want a lfe with some one.
He lives over an hour away, and while he was looking for a job we prayed that whatever Gods will was God would just provide a job even if it meant we saw each other less.
Well he got a call from a business here locally near me that he didnt apply at.
I gave him advice on how to deal with kids emotions through a divorce.
About a month went by and he called and asked me out to a movie, I said yes without even thinking. I am a christian woman, saved and forgiven by Jesus.
SO now he works here...commutes and it is wonderful, we get to see ech other everyday and we are planning for our future together.
I know how Jesus feels about adultry and I knew with him just starting the divorce, this was adultry. I cant tell you how much we think alike, have in common, love kids, kids sports, kids laughter...... His soon to be ex wfe knows about me, she has almost become stalkerish, she uses her kids terribly, the older kids almost never talk to their mom because of her behavior.
Now she has started a ton of blogs about her husband whos in a midlife crisis so he left her for a younger woman.
You may be promising to change everything about yourself they don’t like. This isn’t the time to push for marriage counseling if your partner is resistant to the idea.
However, don’t agree to leave the house if your spouse asks you.